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literallyjustwaiyaki's avatar

whooo! thank you for these notes, these meditations. your thinking & writing, specifically on vernaculars, has formed a big part of my political concepting.

(love & freedom & love & freedom & --)

here, i'm especially taken by motion: the motion in the words & the coming/moving together of the Ball; the movement of walking various categories. moving to find each other; moving away from what does not tolerate us (and, from what we cannot tolerate). Ballroom "moving" from so-called U.S. to Africa. what changes & what stays the same, in this motion.

ultimately -- and, even, untidily -- yes! we live; we move.

i'm glad this was the final note you left us on.

(still -- and this feels like prima materia, like matters for another time, another alchemy -- i feel so... hungry whenever we describe a queer happening as "the first [time] in Kenya"; so often, i feel it untrue, but not dishonest. like, surely, folks my age cannot be the first generation of queer Kenyans to gather / recognise ourselves / come to articulation & expression! it can't be; We've Been Here, right? i feel hungry for lineage, is what i think it is. i feel hungry to be a continuation of something -- which i would much rather be, than a first anything. how do you think/feel/see through queer lineages?)

as always, thank you for the writing & thinking & sharing. tunaendelea kukupenda, kukuheshimu, na kukuhitaji; your articulations prove so important!

wishing you all the best,

v / w / w

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Kai Minosh Pyle's avatar

Thank you for sharing this writing, it’s so beautiful and thought provoking. It reminds me of something that happened to me many years ago. As a teenager I became friends with a group of mostly Black queer and trans folks from Milwaukee who were involved in the balls and houses there. They taught me a little bit how to vogue, which I enjoyed greatly. In college, a friend of mine, a Black lesbian, found out I “knew how to vogue” and made me demonstrate for everyone (lol). Another friend of ours, a Black trans guy, threw a bit of shade and was like “we are literally on the south side of Chicago rn, just go to a real ball.” And I had a realization of what it meant for me as a white-appearing non-Black person to vogue outside the context of those friends I’d learned from originally. So I appreciate your thoughts here about how these things move (how these dance movements move) beyond their original contexts.

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