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Jada Seaton's avatar

I resonate with the thoughts and feelings expressed in this post so deeply. This part especially: It feels obscene to write about gardening, cooking, beauty, fashion, photography, celebrity, pets, film, and fitness while we witness images and narratives of genocide and ecocide.”

I grapple with this every day, oscillating between feelings of hope and guilt and despair and joy constantly. Think I’m slowly coming to the realization that this is just what life is.

Beautiful words. Thank you for sharing. <3

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k'eguro's avatar

Thank you for reading!

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Elizabeth Maddock Dillon's avatar

Beautiful and powerful. Thank you for writing this. I especially love this: "A turning away orients us differently. We feel that turning. We are turned by that turning. Turned, perhaps, into different versions of ourselves." What does turning away do to us?

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k'eguro's avatar

Thank you! I learn so much from Sara Ahmed’s writing, and this was a small attempt to channel her work on orientation in Queer Phenomenology while also holding on to The Cultural Politics of Emotion and The Promise of Happiness.

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Raksha Vasudevan's avatar

Thank you for this. I always appreciate your work. I also wondered if you could point me to the text(s) where Lorde discussed guilt vs. anger?

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k'eguro's avatar

It’s in “The Uses of Anger” in Sister Outsider.

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Udoka's avatar

Thank you for this. Much to think about.

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k'eguro's avatar

Thank you. I was trying to name how I’m feeling and hoping it might resonate with others.

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